This post is primarily for new financial slaves who have no idea where to begin to find the money to serve. The truth is, you have the money for it, you just lack the control over your finances that you need and desire as you venture into this vastly misunderstood fetish and lifestyle.
A financial slave should be able to stick to a strict budget, whether it is one that is administered by their Domme or it is self-instilled as a means of ensuring that they can tribute their domme. Personally speaking, if I take on a financial slave (and I mean one who I truly own, not some random pig who tributes Me for My attention from time to time), I prefer to control their budget. However, even those who are not owned could do with a strict budget that can prevent (or encourage) total ruin.
I encourage finding ways to continuously lowering the budget that you work with in order to sacrifice even more to the Women who control you. The first step to developing a budget at all is to consider the following equation:
Total income – necessities = dispensable income.
Necessities refers solely to the expenses that are required for your survival. By this, I mean your rent or mortgage, utilities (water, electricity, internet, car insurance, etc.), gas, and food. This can additionally include any payments you need to make to debts, though some subs need the guidance of a Domme to annihilate their debts. Paying off your debts can help you to find even more money that you can tribute to your Domme.
When looking at your dispensable income, you need to look at all the different things that you pay for with it. Where does all this money go and what is left of it at the end of the month? The remainder of the money is the basis for your tribute potential. But that isn’t what your tribute will be if you are spoiling Me.
Look through the expenses you pay for with your D.I. and consider what can be sheared. Don’t be a bitch about it – be aggressive with your expenses here. There are many items that you spend money on that can be reduced. Cut down on your clothes shopping. Don’t go out to the movies, just wait for the movie to be released. Buy generic foods, rather than anything name brand, and make sure it is cheaper types of food. Cut out your car entirely by riding a bike or taking the bus (not by taking a taxi or a cab, those are much more expensive. I’m looking at YOU, useless.). Don’t buy alcohol period. Take a packed lunch to work. Learn to cook on your own with basic things (rice, ramen, pasta, chicken, etc.). Cut out your luxuries, such as long distance, special extras on your phone service, your phone entirely, and cable/satellite. Don’t go on dates, use that money on your Domme. Cash in your 401K and any vacation plans. Eliminate your landline and set up your cell plan to include your internet to cut down on paying for actual internet.
If you want to have more to provide for your Domme, sell some of your possessions. Take to using online or mobile apps that allow you to directly sell items or simply head to a pawn shop. If you’re no longer using your car, sell that and give Her all the money from it. Or don’t sell the car and start being an Uber driver during your days and nights off from work. Set it up so that She gets the full payment from it. Get some other part time job, like a paper route, or start selling sperm/plasma/ blood.
